Imagine a world in which no one feels guilt, shame and embarrassment around sex.
Where our sexuality isn’t something consigned to the shadows, but accepted as personality – a fundamental part of who we are.
Where everyone is able to talk openly, honestly and frankly about sex, whether that’s parents educating their children, or lovers communicating in bed.
Where we acknowledge openly that everyone is a sexual being.
Where we hold everyone to openly aspired-to standards of good sexual behavior.
Where children and adults are able to report sexual harassment and abuse by people in authority, family members, pillars of the community, and are immediately believed and supported.
Where revenge porn no longer exists, because nude photos and sex tapes are simply a natural human part of who we all are.
Where everybody is at ease with sex and sexuality, and we are all so much happier as a result.
This is the world of the Social Sex Revolution – a world MakeLoveNotPorn together with our growing community is determined to make happen.
MakeLoveNotPorn: Pro-sex. Pro-porn. Pro-knowing the difference.
We’re pioneering a new category – social sex
MakeLoveNotPorn is the world’s first and only human-curated, crowdsourced #realworldsex videosharing platform. We’re pioneering a whole new category on the internet that’s never previously existed – social sex. We’re what Facebook would be if it allowed you to socially sexually self-express, as naturally and normally as you express yourself in every other way on social media. Anyone, from anywhere in the world, can socially share videos of their #realworldsex on MakeLoveNotPorn, in the same way we socially share videos of every other area of our lives – capturing what goes on in the real world, as it happens, spontaneously, in all its funny messy wonderful awkward beautiful ridiculous humanness. We revenue-share: our members pay to subscribe and stream social sex videos, and half that income goes to our contributors, or as we call them, our MakeLoveNotPornstars.
Our community is built on shared sexual values
We’re doing this to socialize sex. Our single-minded mission is to make it easier for everyone in the world to talk openly and honestly about sex, in order to promote better communication, consent, good sexual values and good sexual behavior.
I believe everything in life (and business) starts with you and your values. I regularly ask people, “What are your sexual values?” No one can ever answer, because we’re not taught to think like that. Our parents bring us up to have good manners, a work ethic, a sense of responsibility, accountability; nobody ever brings us up to behave well in bed.
They should. Because in bed, values like empathy – sensitivity – generosity – kindness – honesty, are as important as they are in every other area of our lives where we’re actively taught to exercise those values.
Our videos demonstrate what consent looks like in bed
#metoo has surfaced a wide-ranging discussion about consent. Everybody’s talking about consent. Everybody’s writing about consent. There are lots of thoughtful, nuanced, insightful thinkpieces about consent. Here’s the problem: nobody knows what consent actually looks like in bed. Nothing educates people about great, consensual, communicative sex; about good sexual values and good sexual behavior, like watching people actually having that kind of sex. Every single video on MakeLoveNotPorn is an object lesson in consent, communication, good sexual values, good sexual behavior. We are education through demonstration.
We change our community’s lives
Our members tell us we’ve saved marriages; rejuvenated relationships; transformed communication; helped healing from erectile dysfunction and post-cancer; sparked a long-wanted pregnancy; expanded sexual repertoires. Our MakeLoveNotPornstars tell us socially sharing their #realworldsex enhanced their sexual self-esteem; made them love themselves more; transformed their relationship.
We fight a battle every day
It’s extremely challenging building a business designed to change the world through sex. Every bit of business infrastructure other tech startups take for granted, we can’t, because the small print always says, ‘No adult content’ – creating barriers for us when it comes to funding, banking, payment processing, every aspect of business operation. That’s why we need your support.
The Social Sex Revolution is something we can achieve together. Sign up to MakeLoveNotPorn for free; take out a monthly subscription; consider becoming a MakeLoveNotPornstar. And help us scale a venture that operates in the biggest market of them all – the market of human happiness.
The Revolution Needs You
– Cindy Gallop, Founder & CEO, MakeLoveNotPorn